We can do it! :)

There is a very interesting example of female empowerment coming in my observance these days and that is female conductors in Delhi transport corporation buses.Every morning I take this DTC bus and when I see this lady conductor in the bus I feel so proud within. 

How the mind sets are changing towards female. It gives me sense of recognition.

A recognition which we are waiting for so long.

I am waiting for the day when there will be lady bus drivers. And In Delhi lady auto drivers.

Nostalgia

You are surfing your facebook account and suddenly you see a photograph of your friend and submerge yourself in some nostalgia. You realize then nostalgia can be dangerous too when you know this friend of yours had hurt you badly or have forgotten your friendship because of some new friends!

And then also some old beautiful memories hits you and You think that it's been so long we can be friends again...we can talk and sought out misunderstandings in a better way..because now we are grown ups..

But ego doesn't permits!

And the interesting part is ; It's not ego(which is generally mistaken as), it's 'just' ego!

Such is life dearies!

Welcome winters!

 

Breezy nights are back!

A cold wave can be felt!

Morning laziness is hitting

Love for hot coffee with extra chocolate has become favorite now

Lovers seen walking hand in hand

Season of Love,

Winters are back!!

Disappointing!!

 People are so sick! They behave so insensitively and so bloody impulsively!

( Ops! I just forgot! It’s so come naturally to them! If they are insensitive to humans they can pretty be insane with animals!!!)

They abuse dogs, unnecessarily, as if, they understand or they even care!

 They harm puppies!! Imagine!!!Puppies!!!

 They are just 2 months old! How can they even harm them! But these people are so dumb ***, they don’t understand this! That the dogs are natural scavengers, they have equal right to live on this planet earth the way they have!

Dogs or their babies never harm you until you harm them .It’s not only with animals it’s with humans also. Until you don’t misbehave with humans they don’t retaliate. But these people are sick! They are just so appropriately insane. They harm puppies, abuse them. Feel proud of it! Bloody shit!!!

I really sympathies these brainless creatures! God Bless them!

My favorite star!

Up above the sky

The solitaire in the sky

Is my favorite in the sky

Everyday in the night it appears

the lucky solitaire in the sky

I gaze to it

I pray to it

I make wishes to it

As it's the one of it own in the sky!

:-) :-)

Don't worry, if you are imperfect , you are not criminal!

I don't understand why people are so obsessed with being perfect! Is there any award assigned for people who'll be perfect?Or they are competing with Google! :O

In this world you don't have to be perfect,because perfect kills the fun! You got to be smart to do your work rather than being perfect and forcing that perfectness on the world. 

It's just so chill chill equation ;

Do your work ,make mistakes, learn,don't make it next time!

Its so simple! 

Why to make it complex, man!

Half of the world is busy correcting others, pointing others mistakes, Cursing them as imperfect human beings!

As if they are perfect police of the world and holds the duty of making everybody perfect! They don't even know that they themselves are disillusioned with the word perfect!

Why don't people take it easy and relax! We have a right to be imperfect. Don't we!?

If someone is not, so called perfect, as you are, then it's your problem not the person whom you are cursing!

 If you are imperfect, you seriously aren't a criminal. Trust me! You are acting normal and behaving like a fit human being. You can take your own time to understand the world. You can be slow, you can be damn slow!

We all are imperfect and because we are imperfect that's why life comes to us with a new experience everyday. 

We learn everyday, we grow everyday!

Cheers!! : )


 

Why?

Why it happens when we are sad everything around suddenly appears sad.

Facebook statuses,movies, songs?

Why it happens when we watching a emotional movie we start crying badly?

Why it happens when we are sad of something all sadness arises simultaneously?

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Introverts!

Myth #1 – Introverts don’t like to talk. This is not true. Introverts just don’t talk unless they have something to say. They hate small talk. Get an introvert talking about something they are interested in, and they won’t shut up for days.  

Myth #2 – Introverts are shy. Shyness has nothing to do with being an Introvert. Introverts are not necessarily afraid of people. What they need is a reason to interact. They don’t interact for the sake of interacting. If you want to talk to an Introvert, just start talking. Don’t worry about being polite.

Myth #3 – Introverts are rude. Introverts often don’t see a reason for beating around the bush with social pleasantries. They want everyone to just be real and honest. Unfortunately, this is not acceptable in most settings, so Introverts can feel a lot of pressure to fit in, which they find exhausting.  

Myth #4 – Introverts don’t like people. On the contrary, Introverts intensely value the few friends they have. They can count their close friends on one hand. If you are lucky enough for an introvert to consider you a friend, you probably have a loyal ally for life. Once you have earned their respect as being a person of substance, you’re in.  

Myth #5 – Introverts don’t like to go out in public. Nonsense. Introverts just don’t like to go out in public FOR AS LONG. They also like to avoid the complications that are involved in public activities. They take in data and experiences very quickly, and as a result, don’t need to be there for long to “get it.” They’re ready to go home, recharge, and process it all. In fact, recharging is absolutely crucial for Introverts.  

Myth #6 – Introverts always want to be alone. Introverts are perfectly comfortable with their own thoughts. They think a lot. They daydream. They like to have problems to work on, puzzles to solve. But they can also get incredibly lonely if they don’t have anyone to share their discoveries with. They crave an authentic and sincere connection with ONE PERSON at a time.  

Myth #7 – Introverts are weird. Introverts are often individualists. They don’t follow the crowd. They’d prefer to be valued for their novel ways of living. They think for themselves and because of that, they often challenge the norm. They don’t make most decisions based on what is popular or trendy.  

Myth #8 – Introverts are aloof nerds. Introverts are people who primarily look inward, paying close attention to their thoughts and emotions. It’s not that they are incapable of paying attention to what is going on around them, it’s just that their inner world is much more stimulating and rewarding to them.  

Myth #9 – Introverts don’t know how to relax and have fun. Introverts typically relax at home or in nature, not in busy public places. Introverts are not thrill seekers and adrenaline junkies. If there is too much talking and noise going on, they shut down. Their brains are too sensitive to the neurotransmitter called Dopamine. Introverts and Extroverts have different dominant neuro-pathways. Just look it up.  

Myth #10 – Introverts can fix themselves and become Extroverts. Introverts cannot “fix themselves” and deserve respect for their natural temperament and contributions to the human race. The extravert's flow is directed outward toward people and objects, and the introvert's is directed inward toward concepts and ideas. Contrasting characteristi.Extraverts often prefer more frequent interaction, while introverts prefer more substantial interaction.Extraverts recharge and get their energy from spending time with people, while introverts recharge and get their energy from spending time alone.

Argh!

1)  Wait outside their office to meet, irrespective of appointment or not.
2)  After a wait, manager comes with a mood of screwing you up.
3) And finally you are screwed and the ego gets dissolve and prepares for another one.

I recently had this experience. There was a planned interview with the one of this H.R lady of some reputed company. Irrespective of this it was planned,it was a prior appointment,that lady didn't turn up on time. I had to meet her about internship program of mines. I was disappointed with her behavior of not meeting on time and showing bundle of  attitudes and tantrums rather understanding the students need and being an employee of human management. I wonder how shes maintaining good employee and employer relationship.
I understand If I have gone with out taking an appointment. I would have not mind waiting long hours. But waiting after appointment brought anger in me and after meeting her and knowing her behavior it brought disrespect too.  
After meeting also,she was not of great help!!

Want it or don't want it?

Half of the people who jump to relationships don’t know they ever wanted one or not. They either want to experiment or are because of peer pressure. Most of these relationships are of casual nature but these casual relationships if not started with causal intentions bursts at the end leaving some bad marks.

That's why ; 

 Relationships are like sweet dagger. You always dream of having one but when you are hit by it you feel like having none.

It is also said Relationship always comes with an expiry date. And that’s true.  Everything in this world comes with expiry date. For say World is ending in 2012(though hypothesis as of now). Then why not relationships? But these words can’t be taken for granted.

 Recently in a discussion when one of my class friends said, it depends on the user. (Though, the statement was for some other topic) but if given a thought how aptly it fits in here too. The more judiciously you use it, its longevity increases.  

Love and care if invested more faithfully the expiry extends to life long.

Relationships are like garden where one experiences different florescent colorful moments. And to maintain those flowery garden one has to nurture it with full enthusiasm. Obviously there are sulking and pissing moments too but if one cant manage to solve those moments then person don’t even deserve those flowery moments. Sucking moments are as important as great moments of ones relationship.

I know it’s easy to write or imagine or say, things are more practical and realistic in life and there are some relationships which don’t even work with a lot of efforts. Then one should not dishearten for long time. A person can take it as a life experience of celebrating some great moments of life with some one who was ones his/her companion. 
But dedication and whole hearted faith always wins.:):)

Cricket is on!

In India Cricket is taken as religion. We all know this. And Sachin Tendulkar is like God of Indian cricket team or Cricket we can say.

After so much of flowing excitement in the air and especially we won semi-finals with the most ever wanted country we always wanted to play and win and in fact statistics says we have never lost it too,i.e Pakistan !!!!!! Where the game was filled with thrilled,excitement,enjoyment and just unbelievable things. For ex-Sachin being lucky six times. The game was amazing!!

We all are so desperately waiting for the finals with Sri Lankan's and The World Cup Home!!!!!! The match is tomorrow and we all have planned our time. People will take school, colleges, offices, off. The roads shall be silent, everything gonna be so numb. There will be prayers offered . Something memorable will happen for sure.

There is something which is very interesting about Cricket fans i.e they are very innocently funny. They believe in tashans.

From Tashans they mean; Changing sititng positions, eating food,smoking,and dancing, in fact, going to Lo's at various intervals is one of the tashans.. Can anybody imagine!!! Such are Cricket lovers.!!!

But the fact is these things really work!!!!

Bus ab kuch he gante aur pir World cup hamara!!!!

Jeetega bahie jeetga ..India jeetega!!!!!!!!!!!

:):):):):)

Good Luck Indian Team :):):)

Frisbee Day! :D:D

It was totally a tiring day today. I went to my clg first, regarding some attestation,Gufff, Man!! From past 2 weeks all nonsense is going, Kabhi prinicipal nahi ata tho Kabhi kuch hojata hai. All this has totally stressed me. Finally today they have taken my form and asked me to come tomorrow and take the attested form! I came back around quarter to one. I was so tired till that time not physically but mentally, didnt have a peaceful sleep last night, woke up early and then all this college nonsense made me exhausted totally.

I came, I had a paratha and switched onn the television, surfed, didn't get anything relevant to watch switched off and slept. That sleep was such a Silent sleep. I don't know why that Time I could hear the silence within me.. I know its sounding bit weird, But at one point of my sleep..It happened Like this.

And then I saw my watch it was 1:55pm and at 2'o clock I have to leave. I was so damn sleepy that time But somehow I dragged myself because I was getting late for the class. I got up,washed my face, got ready, left Home.

And all this made me late today, I reached late to the advertising class. That too 20 mins..:D :D :D

Ok So now comes the suspense. Today we were discussing in the class of advertising of invention of Future Flying car. It was totally a random act. Our teacher asked for the name of the car, and discussion started. I was so tired and was listening them and then suddenly I popped up with the word 'FRISBEE'-The Flying Car..and everybody was Like....Ohki...and Maam just went to the board and names that car Frisbee. We had so much fun later and now we have to make a project reagrding all this advertising tools, keeping in mind all those 4 P's.It gona be very interesting, I am sure. :-).
Finally, Class got over. We were going back home.
As we take my bus from South Ex only. And I was hungry too so I took MC D's burger and My friend's had some Kalla Khatta!!!

I came home, Met 'P' had fun, giggled a lot. Shared our tid-bits. She shared her Life Tragedy and I shared Mine... Had Fun... :-)

But a very strange thing also happened today. One of my friend whom I don't know much neither she knows much about me.. said"Gauri ajj tera mood off lagraha, what happened" And I said: aisa kuch nahi hai..I am just tired and feeling sleepy..
But this made me think for a while though..Really Is there something which is bothering me..??

But anyway..
Later Half of the day was Good. :-). I had fun!!
:-)

And the Bad news is Tomorrow also I have to get up early, uhaaa!!!! Il have a very long and a very tiring, Busy and exhausting Dayyyyy!!!!
:( :( :(((

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Exams Fever...Ufff!

6th April-21st April

Exams start hone vale haii,Itne tension hai,Ajkal jisse bhi ph par baat karo,sabka yehe kehna..barbad karde exams ne zindage,pad pad ke deemag kharab hogaya hai life mei koi excitement he nahi rehe ab,same yaha mera bhi haal hai..!!
Kuch maza he nahi raha,pado pado aur bus padte he rehoo..!!!

Kal bhi ek apni friend se baat karehe the,vo bhi yehe kehrehe the,Gauri yar kitna pade hum matlab,,CA ke exams bhi arehe hai finals bhi arehe hai,bus mere to watt lageve hai..
Itna high level vala depression chalraha haina ajakal..!!!
Hum becahre bacho ki to waat laga di iss Padai ne,,,

Cost Accountancy ka exam hai pehla,Kitna padna hai,itna padne ke baad bhi dar lagraha hai agar exam mushkil aya to kaha jakar royenge...:("
Sir ne to already dara he diya hai...
Ab sirf Bhagwan he bacha sakhta hai humhe iss Katnai ke dor se..
Hey prabhu Udaar karde hum Students ka..
Naiya par laga de..!!!
:(

All the very best for all Graduation students..
God Bless!!
Rock onn!!
:-)

Blogger Friends:-)

Thanks Riya!:-)
Cheers!!

A very Goodbye to 2008.

Finally a year of disappointments and depression is getting over. Hopefully 2009 will be a better year.
In fact am more happy saying goodbye to 2008 rather being more excited about 2009:D
God Bless all with loads of happiness and love.
:)
And this new look to the blog, is my gift to my blog, for 2009:)

':-)'

Yippyyyyy!!!!:D:D
I voted,I voted,I voted!!!!!! My first vote...!!!!!yeahh!!!
FeelingGood,Feeling Responsible...:-)
yeaaahhhh!!!!!:-)))

Award Time!!:-)

Before starting anything new,I would love to thank Tushar for awarding me this Butterfly award,I felt very delighted and i am flying high like this butterfly to the 7th sky by his sweet gesture.
Thank you Tushar:-).

As i also have the great privilege to award this to other blogger,but all the other blogger friends of mine have already been awarded so am keeping this best thing for the last.
:D:D
Once again a heart felt thanks to Tushar.

Old Man!!!

Yesterday something very weird happened.I went with my family to one Bhajan Sandya and there I,my moma and my brother was in the shoe stand area,doing Seva there.Then what happened a old man came and gave his token so i can bring his shoes,after i bought his shoes,he thanked me alot of time and he was smiling and smiling and i also smiled once and said welcome politely.

But i don't know why,i didn't fine this man genuine somewhere,there was something in his eyes,some negativity or the way he was staring,there was something which was unpleasant.
After standing for some 1-2 minutes this man left, and i think that time also he was staring me[i didn't notice him much because i already was feeling uncomfortable and i was overlooking him and got busy with other people,to help them to find there shoes]. And suddenly after walking 5-6 steps this old man came to me,[there was a distance of one table between us] and said show me your hand.i got puzzled when he said this,and i didn't show him my hand,then what he did, he just pulled my hand,took out his handkerchief and wiped my both hands and then left.and he did this very rapidly and i got soo sacred at tat time,i just cant tell! His gesture was may be from his heart but still i don't know why,? i didn't find it that pure,there was something which i didn't like,may be the way he was looking or the way he behaved,there was something which was bit fishy with his character.

Memories!

We can forget people,their faces,dates,years, but why the hell we can't forget moments,,?
They are always in our brains until n unless we are amnesiac,,sometimes saddest of the memory is still packed in our brains.
We forget relationships but we cant forget moments,such a weird human process!
People leave us and go.But memories haunt us or may be sometimes they just become very dearer.Sometimes there are allot of soothing memories but people remember some sobbing memories more prominently and, when i thought about it and did some autobiopsy asusal,i came to the conclusion that they can be more Real and preserving than any other ordinary fake memory, that's why people's brain adapt them better.[may be]

Here am not saying that people don't adapt sweet memories,ofcorse they do,infact everybody does,but it has seen that people adapt sob sob memory more often ,as they are more of emotional bond..

There are many memories which we really wanted the most to forget because they just bring tears, . Then Why they are always just stucks inn and sucks are life's! why the hell we don't forget them??

Because ,the Ultimate fact is,, People can forget us, We can forget them, but memories, will never forget either of us!!Ones the memories are recorded in high powerful brain cells they are there always feeded inn and its too hard to forget them..
Thats what life is..