After a long time I am penning down some thoughts and starting it with a very famous Quote only by Shirley Chisholm
‘The emotional, sexual, and psychological stereotyping of females begins when the doctor says, "It's a girl."
I was talking to my friend yesterday and we were talking on very sensitive personal issue of her life and I realized that Where do women stand? Everybody shouts here and there that Women are given equal opportunities and equality in this world. Women are reaching to higher new worlds, but the real fact is that Women are still under covers. If we see there are very few women who have make it to the top, it’s about professionalism and that too we only know the media stories, how they achieved and all. People still are not aware of the hidden stories, how strong they have to become to reach to that level, how they fought with the male group,better known as Chauvinism(of course not verbal or violent fight, a professional fight, politics and all)
Achieving Great heights doesn’t prove Women to be treated equal or a part of equal society. Is It?
‘One of the things about equality is not just that you be treated equally to a man, but that you treat yourself equally to the way you treat a man.’
In today’s world Women go through such mental stress not only in professional front but also in personal front. Men never go through such fronts. A woman sacrifice and compromises every then and now. Men and their Ego, they never do so.
Men once leaves house with a relief of being no more responsible and leaves everything for Women to do. She cooks, take care of the family, and take care of her Children and her job, everything. And What Men do, Goes to office, Work, Dominate female colleagues.A Indian men cannot See women grabbing more rewards. This is what life they live.
In personal Life, they can use abusive languages to them, can be violent with them. They take advantage of Women being less masculine. Take advantage of their emotions.
But they have never stand for Women’s Right! Have they ever been? No! What a hypocrisy it is!? Can shout but cannot support!
My friend who’s father had an Extra marital after having 2 children, he had an affair..
And when the wife confronted him He offered a blank Cheque!! This is the way women are treated. What the hell man..!!
How the woman felt that time..!? She must have been shattered, and what about the children, they must have felt so left alone a father doing this, the trust the respect, all must have vanished. What women go through when the male act so irresponsibly or i should say rediculously like this?! Nobody can even understand this Except Woman herself!!
Women are still entangled with those big chains: they are bounded with religion, castes, and traditions. Men are not! But why? They don’t have to follow traditions or so?
Indian Women are brought up like this only. ‘Pati he parmeshwar’ types, there thought process has limited flow of teaching. Do Males deserve all this wholehearted respect? So much of pampering!?
Anybody can bellow that women have the right to do this and Blah blah blah. But reality is something else? It’s all gimmick. We see something and its something else.
This is only one case we know about it, there would be 1000 cases like this,
Where women have sacrificed everything after being under such a tremendous mental stress just because of her children and of public image (Family). If women do such thing, men can just blast and shout, putting disgusting allegations, insulting badly and next step divorce.
Is this the Way Women should be treated!? We celebrate Women’s Day for this..?
Why Such inequality?
‘Women is treated like an instrument, rather than an ornament.’
The above quote very well justified what all women go through!
This is only urban phase. So now we can think how worst would be Rural. Where everyday a drunken man comes home and beat her wife. Spend all of his jewels in gambling. After all this people say that Women has a 'say' in the community..Strange!??
I just Rap up my post by the last quote which in itself sums up everything.
‘I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naïve or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman. ‘
(No No people am not celebrating any belated Women’s day or so, It’s a Random thought, Random feeling and a random scribbling.)
PS:I am not feminist neither I hate men!
Read it with a Heart not with a mind of doing auto biopsy. I am again emphasizing, Its just a random scribbling .
Will love to read your views for sure:)(Quotes displayed are taken from various sites)