Sunday, August 31, 2008


If yoU lose someone, who's genuine to you in every aspect,than u may not get that person back.
Life doesn't give chances again again. If a person is hurt by you many times, can bear your tantrums, can accept your ego and after all this, still cares,loves you,, ever thought why?? because that person values you,feels that you are an important person in that person's life.

No body wants to lose no one. Though the reciprocation is not the same but then also valuables are not meant to be lost like this,they are to preserve,but there's a saturation point of every thing and when it comes things becomes harder n sadder and the loss is much higher and regret is unbearable.

I have read somewhere that if efforts are taken to maintain relationships than that relationships are of no use,,but i feel sometimes, efforts are taken to settle down things, may be for betterment. But realisation of those efforts are also necessary,that too on tImE if not then the efforts are like a waste.
'Losing People is as easy as falling off a log ,Preserving shows Real guts!'


descrying the shadows said...

hey kiddo ... yes u r right there it takes a lot to preserve a relationship and more imp it takes 2 make one
u shud read this letter my father wrote to me andd my bro advising us on our ... ahem .. love lifes

Rajesh said...

Wow!!!! Too good...lucidly expressed...amazing!! I've nothin more to say...yeah...u r right

P.S: Thanks for reading even ma older posts...glad it interested u.. :)

Kartz said...
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Kartz said...

That was a nice write-up. You are correct- preserving a relation takes alot, but that's when you see a flower blossom and bloom right in front of your eyes.

"For the joy of ear and eye,
For the heart and mind's delight,
For the mystic harmony,
Linking sense to sound and sight."

I penned a story on the topic; read on at-

Prashant Sree said...

An interesting read !! Relationship is a ship travelled by two people.,. we have many ship's travelling across simultaneously in our ocean of life.,.

What matters eventually is how the journey is done.,. I seem to recall a quote i read somewhere.,.

"If you love someone,
Set her free…
If she comes back, she’s yours,
If she doesn’t, she’s never was…. "

There it goes :)

Gauri Mathur said...

oyee jyada na bol,,m nt kidoo..:P
n yaa i read thar ws too good:-)
i have drop inn a comment also,,:-)

Gauri Mathur said...

@Rajesh Thanx again for your lovely words!:-)

Gauri Mathur said...


Gauri Mathur said...

heyy Kartz:-)
beautiful lines ..n il read that story soon:-)