Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Chapter Closed.

Finally the time has come when things are on the verge of ending. Her 2 year Crush has to be crushed now. She has believed in Happy endings,and she'll always be, but this would really be a disheartening sad ending for her. She never knew that things can change suddenly and she has to take the difficult decision of maintaining a distance from him.
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She holds no importance in his life now. She liked him with a pure and a innocent heart. It’s sometimes very hard to maintain distance from him, it pains a lot ,but she'll now. She somewhere still likes him but now the difference is, that feelings are suppressed and she’s happy like this.

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Saturday, January 17, 2009

Quotes:) :)

-Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back!
Don't Expect love in return; just wait for it to grow into their heart but if doesn't be content it grew in yours.
-A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle.
-Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow,it empties today of its strength.

-You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with.

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Superstitions-A Barrier In Relationships?

Yesterday was siting and got a call from my very dear friend and she told me about her break-off.Her 3 year relationship. They were deeply in love.
When i asked her the reason for such a decision,then she replied because of our Kundalies.i couldn't understand what shes trying to tell me,
I asked her again,whats going on.Then with a very strong and a shaky voice she said that our kundalies do not match and then she started weeping. Then she kept the phone down.
For a moment i was surprisingly shocked.
I was wondering that can Kundali make two people apart??If its so,then there will never be pure love among 2 people."Pyar bhi ab kya Kundali milvakar karenge"! Strange!

Astrology is termed a science in our
beliefs and its the ancient study,may be the predictions have some significance
but does it really matters in context of love marriage?? I mean in arrange marriages, we Hindu people already go by this kundali-milan process but what about love marriages??We don't fall in love by first matching in our Kundalies, or do we? People fall in love by chance not by choice.
Love is not one day play,It takes time. And at the end,'yeh hall hoo'.!! what a sad part of life,losing your love in a second, just because its not matching with your partner's Kundali.Weird!

I know all this must be sounding as if m against all this Astrology,but am not.Its that i pity we human souls who are so unlucky that because of some superstitions and some old superstitious customs,we have to lose our love and may be many more things.

We humans all over the world are same,but why western people doesnt indulge in all this,why they don't get marry by kundali? I mean,Is this Kundali thing is only appropriate for we Indians,Hindus only?? What about them?? We are adapting Western Culture but We cannot adapt apt things from them,being less superstitious.
We Indians are so very superstitious that half of our life miseries is because of being overly superstitious.
Is not the Kundali part is only one superstition we following,there are many,some don't even comes in public eyes,I wonder sometimes where all this superstitions will lead us.. certain questions in my mind always remain unanswered...

May be Such is a life dearies...

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Thursday, January 8, 2009

Tag Time.(Tagged By Richa)

So Finally Richie Rich am doing this Tag,Sorry for the delay.:)
Here it goes:):)
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1. If your lover betrayed you what would your reaction be?
Nothing very great,I'll just 'Kick his ass':D

2. If you could have one dream come true which one would it be?

Only One,,:(bahutt saare haii ree,,abhi too umar start huee hai drems dekhne kii:):)

3. Whose butt would you like to kick!
Upar to Lika,The Betrayed lover:D :D

4. What would you do with a billion dollars?
I'll save,'I'll invest, I'll donate,I'll party:D

5. Will you fall in love with your best friend?
I am already in love with my best friends.

6. Which is more blessed: loving someone or being loved by someone?
Both:D

7. How long would you wait for someone you love?
Not much.

8. If the person you like is secretly attached, what would you do?
I'll let it be a secret only.:D

9. If you could root for one social cause which one would it be?
Actually they are many i would like to support.

10. What takes you down the fastest?
Hypocrites, Dishonesty,disloyalty...

11. I change this question : What I loathe most in people?
Selfishness.

12. What's your fear?
Losing people.May be.
I am a bit self content person,Fears doesn't arise with in me so often.

13. What kind of person(s) do you think the person who tagged you is/are?
Sweet,Chirpy.Richie Rich:)

14. Would you rather be single and rich or married and poor?
What matters to me is married happily:)

15. What is the first thing you do when you wake up?
I pray:)

16. If you fall in love with two people simultaneously who would you pick?
Love can only happen with one person.:)

17. Would you give all in a relationship?
Definitely.

18. What's eating you now?
Alot of things,,:D

19. Do you prefer being single or in a relationship?
Uhmmmm..;);)

20. Tag 3 people...
So m Tagging:
Devika
Pankhuri
Riya

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Award!


As the New Year started, i got My very First New Year Award which was given by Richa..[Richie Rich]:-).
All thanks to her:)
Its Lovely Blogger Award.

:-)
Thanks Richie Rich!
Cheers!