Thursday, January 15, 2009

Superstitions-A Barrier In Relationships?

Yesterday was siting and got a call from my very dear friend and she told me about her break-off.Her 3 year relationship. They were deeply in love.
When i asked her the reason for such a decision,then she replied because of our Kundalies.i couldn't understand what shes trying to tell me,
I asked her again,whats going on.Then with a very strong and a shaky voice she said that our kundalies do not match and then she started weeping. Then she kept the phone down.
For a moment i was surprisingly shocked.
I was wondering that can Kundali make two people apart??If its so,then there will never be pure love among 2 people."Pyar bhi ab kya Kundali milvakar karenge"! Strange!

Astrology is termed a science in our
beliefs and its the ancient study,may be the predictions have some significance
but does it really matters in context of love marriage?? I mean in arrange marriages, we Hindu people already go by this kundali-milan process but what about love marriages??We don't fall in love by first matching in our Kundalies, or do we? People fall in love by chance not by choice.
Love is not one day play,It takes time. And at the end,'yeh hall hoo'.!! what a sad part of life,losing your love in a second, just because its not matching with your partner's Kundali.Weird!

I know all this must be sounding as if m against all this Astrology,but am not.Its that i pity we human souls who are so unlucky that because of some superstitions and some old superstitious customs,we have to lose our love and may be many more things.

We humans all over the world are same,but why western people doesnt indulge in all this,why they don't get marry by kundali? I mean,Is this Kundali thing is only appropriate for we Indians,Hindus only?? What about them?? We are adapting Western Culture but We cannot adapt apt things from them,being less superstitious.
We Indians are so very superstitious that half of our life miseries is because of being overly superstitious.
Is not the Kundali part is only one superstition we following,there are many,some don't even comes in public eyes,I wonder sometimes where all this superstitions will lead us.. certain questions in my mind always remain unanswered...

May be Such is a life dearies...

13 comments:

Rajesh said...

After many short short write-ups, i m reading a big full-fledged piece from u./..was good...thought provoking

To an extent u r right...i don agree that MOST of our miseries are due to that but certainly, they do affect.. But then it varies from person to person and what kinda superstitions are being followed..

Overall was nice...

Gauri Mathur said...

Hey Rajesh!!!
Nice to hear from you??:)
where were you??

my friend, u only said this it depends person to person.i have seen people who desperately follow this astrology thing,and because of their blind trust on this they get into various troubles,,.

But no matter,some follow it blindly,and some with eyes open,some r the either way,,v all r in a circle of this superstitions.
Thanks !!:)
take care..

Sam said...

very good post. i loved it. astrology is nothing but a junk science hyped.....

we loose so many good prospective relationships due to this junk science

ask me, nobody wud exp it worse than me :(

Kartz said...

Hmmm... Reminds me of LRMB. Batuk Maharaj, Kkhorana...

As the French say, "C'est la vie!"

Peace.

Tushar Mangl said...

i thought u believed in astrology
u learned it too

Rajesh said...

@Rajesh
I'm very much here at Chennai...Hoping to c u soon at ma blog :)

Srini said...

Hey you are right, I am an atheist by choice and no offence to peoples principles... but I feel all these astro, religion stuff is what has been created the world what it is today.. its such a pain to think how not only love, but people are being mislead in the name of cast and creed... uff... I too have read few books on astro in my past and I feel... its done by people who are good for nothing.. its like in the ancient times... we had people who were rich being kings...then we had people who were strong - guarding rich people...then we had people who were good at wood work - carpenter... the same way we had these good for nothing people who smoked pot and looked up in the sky and wrote these astro books... and since then things are going on and on and on... uff...no offence but this is reality ... one more thing, what kind of a guy does your friend love .. a guy who cannot decide what he wants in life... again no offence..just my honest views...

Gauri Mathur said...

@Tushar yaa..i believe in it,,i learned it too..but i don't follow it blindly...am not very superstitious as a person:):)

Gauri Mathur said...

@Rajesh..sure..def..i'l be in your blog soon:):)

Gauri Mathur said...

@Karthik
LRMB boleto???

Gauri Mathur said...

@Sam..Thanks yarr:)

Gauri Mathur said...

@Srini
:)
thanks:)
take care..

Kartz said...

Lage Raho Munna Bhai! :P :P :P