We all primarily think to be monetarily independent.
You ask a question why you want to work and they say because we want to be monetarily independent.
But the questions arises that is being monetarily independent more important than being emotionally independent?
Or it’s like; First money comes then emotions?
Or we never think about our emotional needs when we should.
What I have learned, a person has to be emotionally dependent first. If you can handle your emotions well nobody can slide you down.
If you are dependent too much on somebody you are in danger of hurting yourself and if that person doesn’t respect or understand this fact that he/she is the person whom we chose to be dependent on out of those 1000 people because of trust and love we have on them then it’s upsetting too.
But such is life dearies..
Some are lucky; some are about to be lucky; some wants to be lucky ! :)
Memories Such an inevitable part of life We think We cry We Smile We regret We Enjoy People come and Go But at the end,Memories Are Memories They come and Stays forever.
After a long time I am penning down some thoughts and starting it with a very famous Quote only by Shirley Chisholm
‘The emotional, sexual, and psychological stereotyping of females begins when the doctor says, "It's a girl."
I was talking to my friend yesterday and we were talking on very sensitive personal issue of her life and I realized that Where do women stand? Everybody shouts here and there that Women are given equal opportunities and equality in this world. Women are reaching to higher new worlds, but the real fact is that Women are still under covers. If we see there are very few women who have make it to the top, it’s about professionalism and that too we only know the media stories, how they achieved and all. People still are not aware of the hidden stories, how strong they have to become to reach to that level, how they fought with the male group,better known as Chauvinism(of course not verbal or violent fight, a professional fight, politics and all)
Achieving Great heights doesn’t prove Women to be treated equal or a part of equal society. Is It?
‘One of the things about equality is not just that you be treated equally to a man, but that you treat yourself equally to the way you treat a man.’
In today’s world Women go through such mental stress not only in professional front but also in personal front. Men never go through such fronts. A woman sacrifice and compromises every then and now. Men and their Ego, they never do so.
Men once leaves house with a relief of being no more responsible and leaves everything for Women to do. She cooks, take care of the family, and take care of her Children and her job, everything. And What Men do, Goes to office, Work, Dominate female colleagues.A Indian men cannot See women grabbing more rewards. This is what life they live.
In personal Life, they can use abusive languages to them, can be violent with them. They take advantage of Women being less masculine. Take advantage of their emotions.
But they have never stand for Women’s Right! Have they ever been? No! What a hypocrisy it is!? Can shout but cannot support!
My friend who’s father had an Extra marital after having 2 children, he had an affair..
And when the wife confronted him He offered a blank Cheque!! This is the way women are treated. What the hell man..!!
How the woman felt that time..!? She must have been shattered, and what about the children, they must have felt so left alone a father doing this, the trust the respect, all must have vanished. What women go through when the male act so irresponsibly or i should say rediculously like this?! Nobody can even understand this Except Woman herself!!
Women are still entangled with those big chains: they are bounded with religion, castes, and traditions. Men are not! But why? They don’t have to follow traditions or so?
Indian Women are brought up like this only. ‘Pati he parmeshwar’ types, there thought process has limited flow of teaching. Do Males deserve all this wholehearted respect? So much of pampering!?
Anybody can bellow that women have the right to do this and Blah blah blah. But reality is something else? It’s all gimmick. We see something and its something else.
This is only one case we know about it, there would be 1000 cases like this,
Where women have sacrificed everything after being under such a tremendous mental stress just because of her children and of public image (Family). If women do such thing, men can just blast and shout, putting disgusting allegations, insulting badly and next step divorce.
Is this the Way Women should be treated!? We celebrate Women’s Day for this..?
Why Such inequality?
‘Women is treated like an instrument, rather than an ornament.’
The above quote very well justified what all women go through!
This is only urban phase. So now we can think how worst would be Rural. Where everyday a drunken man comes home and beat her wife. Spend all of his jewels in gambling. After all this people say that Women has a 'say' in the community..Strange!??
Anyway...
I just Rap up my post by the last quote which in itself sums up everything.
‘I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naïve or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman. ‘
(No No people am not celebrating any belated Women’s day or so, It’s a Random thought, Random feeling and a random scribbling.)
PS:I am not feminist neither I hate men!
Read it with a Heart not with a mind of doing auto biopsy. I am again emphasizing, Its just a random scribbling .
Zindage ke dukho ko jee liyahaste haste, Zindage ne rishte badale,manliya uske dastoor ko haste haste Zindage ne rishte Cheene, sarako par leliya uske iss hukum koo haste haste..
Par Zindage kise ko itna ghum na deki Insaan us Khuda se kud keh. Hey Ishwar.. Aaaj Solakar hamesha ke liye sapno ki duniya mei chod aiyo.. kal ki subeh ke suraj ki roshni mat dekhaiyo..
R.E.A.L.I.Z.A.T.I.O.N. What a long 11 letter word.? Phew! Difficult to pronounce or difficult to understand or difficult to feel? Depends on person to person. We such an intelligent human beings, who thinks of our self that we can never be wrong and living in this worldly misconceptions we create great errors of life. Some lose closest friends, some lose ones respect, some lose money and some lose Love.
What a life tragedy, just couldn't understand the meaning of One word in life and we losing so many things,what a loss man!! People dont apologize because they think,"Ham to bhagwankeavtarhai hum to kabhigaltikar he niesakhte." Some Think "Ki mei he kyopehle sorry bolouskebhi to galtihaiivokyonibolsakhta.." 'Bhaie ab Ego bhi to koicheezhotehaiiuskokyo degrade kare,haina..'But in all these misconceptions,they forget,what to realize and what to do.But the fact is that people ruin everything by such imature ideas.
If see the word Realization itself,the meaning is hidden in it only,'Real+zituation.' Or we can say it in this way 'Aware of real+situation'. But in today's world who cares to be like that. People are busy with there own lives,making money, how does it matters, What all they are losing just because of not realizing things on time. People are no more Emphathic,and till the time they'll not able to put themselves in other's shoes, how will they'll realize other's pain, and one's mistake. We talk about all that Spirituality,and deeper world and Existentialism and God Knows what all complicated terms,but the reality is, All this starts from Forgiving Word and then we come to forgiving World:). And a person can only be forgiving if he/she realizes situations on time. Its the time for all the realization,if left unrealized,realize it,solve it and back to normal with things and make a better and Happy environment.
'Life is Easy,Life is good,Life is Fun, but lead with some tiny realizations,A Smile will always be there.' Cheers!:-) Peace:)
(PS:This post was utterly in good faith for every reader,and for me also,i myself don't believe in preaching neither being preached,its just an effort taken for the awareness for all those souls who still have not realized that life is beyond all these worldly matters,if committed a mistake, apologizing will not make you small,it will just bring more love and respect's in one's heart.)
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Love an amazing feeling of fullfillement, a feeling of all desires come to an end. It refreshes the soul,gives new hopes to live in, We start knitting dreams again with all the different pastel colours, green,orange every bright colour we can think of.. Old leaves sheds down, bright shiny light comes out, New bond builds up,clouds of misunderstanding wipes off. A new beginning steps in,,.
Its like rebirth of ones own soul,worries are buried,peace comes in, Life seems as rainbow with silver linning all over it. No matter Its conveyed or not, but a feeling in itself takes us from one world to another of purity.. A world of dreams ,a world of contentment, a world of innocent fanatasies, A glory is there,our face blossoms like a cheery flower,a believe comes in.. World seems the most beautiful gift we can ever get from Divine.. We Sing ,We Dance,We mutter all the time, it just instill us with all the joys of life. We lose control,we hop,we pop,we hip and hop, we talk all the time, it just revives all senses, What a soothing sensation it is.
A Love,A Love, what a miracle it is,What a Blessing it is. :-):-)
