Hub dub*

Sometimes in your life it happens that you feel lost in some event. This event has made such a great impact on you that one feels like submerging in it till the time one can. (Yes here I am indicating a positive event)


Yes same has happened with me.

A feeling I can't express

But I want to express

It's a happiness with in me

I want to share

I want to shout and tell

How it feels

How It was!!

Yes I want to be lost in yesterday

Till a promising today comes

I will wait

Yes I will wait!

For a much closer and promising today!

For a much closer together stay!

xoxo!

I think too much :D!

We all primarily think to be monetarily independent.

You ask a question why you want to work and they say because we want to be monetarily independent.

But the questions arises that is being monetarily independent more important than being emotionally independent?

              

  Or it’s like; First money comes then emotions?

Or we never think about our emotional needs when we should.

What I have learned, a person has to be emotionally dependent first. If you can handle your emotions well nobody can slide you down.

If you are dependent too much on somebody you are in danger of hurting yourself and if that person doesn’t respect or understand this fact that he/she is the person whom we chose to be dependent on out of those 1000 people because of trust and love we have on them then it’s upsetting too.

But such is life dearies..

Some are lucky; some are about to be lucky; some wants to be lucky !  :)

Welcome winters!

 

Breezy nights are back!

A cold wave can be felt!

Morning laziness is hitting

Love for hot coffee with extra chocolate has become favorite now

Lovers seen walking hand in hand

Season of Love,

Winters are back!!

Superstitions-A Barrier In Relationships?

Yesterday was siting and got a call from my very dear friend and she told me about her break-off.Her 3 year relationship. They were deeply in love.
When i asked her the reason for such a decision,then she replied because of our Kundalies.i couldn't understand what shes trying to tell me,
I asked her again,whats going on.Then with a very strong and a shaky voice she said that our kundalies do not match and then she started weeping. Then she kept the phone down.
For a moment i was surprisingly shocked.I was wondering that can Kundali make two people apart??If its so,then there will never be pure love among 2 people."Pyar bhi ab kya Kundali milvakar karenge"! Strange!

Astrology is termed a science in our beliefs and its the ancient study,may be the predictions have some significance
but does it really matters in context of love marriage?? I mean in arrange marriages, we Hindu people already go by this kundali-milan process but what about love marriages??We don't fall in love by first matching in our Kundalies, or do we? People fall in love by chance not by choice.
Love is not one day play,It takes time. And at the end,'yeh hall hoo'.!! what a sad part of life,losing your love in a second, just because its not matching with your partner's Kundali.Weird!

I know all this must be sounding as if m against all this Astrology,but am not.Its that i pity we human souls who are so unlucky that because of some superstitions and some old superstitious customs,we have to lose our love and may be many more things.

We humans all over the world are same,but why western people doesnt indulge in all this,why they don't get marry by kundali? I mean,Is this Kundali thing is only appropriate for we Indians,Hindus only?? What about them?? We are adapting Western Culture but We cannot adapt apt things from them,being less superstitious.
We Indians are so very superstitious that half of our life miseries is because of being overly superstitious.
Is not the Kundali part is only one superstition we following,there are many,some don't even comes in public eyes,I wonder sometimes where all this superstitions will lead us.. certain questions in my mind always remain unanswered...

May be Such is a life dearies...

How Important is Money iN Relationships?

This was the topic in one of the magazines for some competition,i didn't send the entry but thought to share my views with my blog.

Money an inexorable aspect of one's life. There's always of a greed of more and more.In today's modern world money has become more important than relationships.
Now days money is a pillar of everything.In fact its a base of any relationships.People have lost every emotions of life and highly practical that they are more money minded than relationship mined.For them financial status is more than ones own goodwill.
If you have huge amount of bank balance than you have every relationship of life.
Today the world has become so cunning, accept money people are unable to sense anything else.

Relationships another inseparable part of life, that these days people are so much into money thingy that money has empowered the scent of relationships.
Ones my friend told me that her friend decided her Boy by not seeing that how he is as a person but how much is his bank balance.And i was totally surprised how can somebody be so clever and so bitchy i mean so mean.But as it is said that no two people are same, everybody is different,differs in opinions and thoughts i had nothing to tell her accept listening all this.People says that gossiping is 'bitchy' but i truly feels this 'money' is more bitchy and killing.
If you have money you have relationships,if you don't have a single penny you have lost everything your own family sometimes.

Sometimes i wonder that where the world is leading everybody has become so materialistic,for what?? When they'll go to God's place they just can't take all this materialistic things,for what they are so mad about.??
Status,bank balance,for what,at the end only good deeds will be counted..??

Anyways, if money is heavy on relationships ,then whats a big deal in it, after all its 'Kalyug' anything can happen.

:D:D